you noticed how everyone blames society, the system, the bastards
in politics... someone else for their own short comings. Funny
how when people are looking to place blame, they never look
in the mirror.
thing about blame. For the most part, people can do without
blame. People should be able to just go with "what is,
is, what happened, happened, and it's all in the freakin'
past so who cares?"
shit happens every day man. And yeah, sometimes it happens
to be someone's "fault".
a lot of the stuff is just a numbers game. There's some reward
in being best, but there's also some reward in being second
best. Fourteenth best. Even right smack dab in the middle
of the pack.
this sense of entitlement that seems to be pervading society.
Okay... let's be real. I just assume the people who are doing
better than me aren't sitting there thinking "gee, I'm
doing a lot better than I ever thought I would... I wonder
what I ever did to deserve this."
sure, a lot of people at the top can be pretty humble about
being right place, right time. They give credit to those who
supported them. But the further down the scale you go, the
less credit people tend to spread around.
way I see it, I've gotten a few breaks, and I done good. But
hell, I gotta get some of this blame shit outta my system
if I'm gonna get past where I am right now. I'm spending so
much freakin' time trying to figure out whose fault everything
is, that I can't get back around to lookin' at where I go
blame may seem like the obvious "this is why things are
not going according to plan" answer. I'm starting, however,
to suspect that finding the problem, the glitch, the "if
only" (in other words, something/one to point my finger
at) that I can just remove that element from the equation
and repeat, and all will be fine.
is way more complex than that. And anyway, you can never really
do a do-over anyway.